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Married to an alpha male


I know not all women will agree, but a man who is a man is a huge turn on. My alpha male works with his hands and plays guitar. He has a bad mouth and at times a bit of a short fuse. Prior to falling in love with an alpha male, I had been married to a very non-alpha male.

I was the pants wearer and decision maker. Someone who was good with me taking initiative and leading the way. As time wore on, however, I realized being the alpha in a relationship becomes tiresome. Trying to pinpoint where we went wrong in our marriage is tough, but the differences in how ambitious and driven we each are is probably the obstacle that was hardest to overcome.

Then along comes Alpha.

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He is strong and smart and capable. He knows what he wants and makes it happen. He is fiercely competitive and the first to Married to an alpha male to my defense. I see this in him and it makes me swoon. I never thought I was the kind of woman to fall for a dominant man and end up in an affair with him. I thought surely I wanted to be in charge.

Alpha males bring a certain amount of sex appeal as well.

Mine works with his hands and plays guitar. When it comes to me he is sensitive and patient.

He treats women with respect and there is a certain chivalry to men who are men. They are a dying breed and I am lucky enough to have snagged one. I believe the draw to alpha males for so many women is that we are a generation of powerful women. We want equality in our careers, at home and in life in general.

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With this, we have to lose some of our softness at times to be heard. An alpha male reminds women that it is ok to be treated like a lady sometimes. It is ok to not always be the dominant person in the room. Of course, with any positive, there are usually a few negatives. At times his dominance is frustrating for this bossy girl.

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I do like things my way…and so does he…so we often have to make huge efforts to meet in the middle. We have to recognize when we are at an impasse and move on. I have to allow for a certain amount of bravado and chest pounding that at times is sexy…and at times just makes me laugh.

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However, his passion for life and for getting things done means that he will go above and beyond to ensure my happiness.

He wants to be the man that saves me from others and from myself.

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