All you need is a bit of confidence, a bit of common sense, and some examples to learn from. And, once you have the latter, the other two elements are sure to follow.
The best way to rise above the rest? Tailor your message for the recipient.
Want an easy way to write an online dating message that has a great chance of getting a reply? Identify the common ground between you and the recipient. So, why not bring that up? Are you enjoying being on a dating site? Finding common ground is great, but an even better approach is to identify something specific in their profile that you find interesting. Just hone in on one that you share or would like to share! Do you have any favorite spots? The eagle-eyed among you will have noticed a common thread in these messages — they ask questions.
Yes, your first online message is a chance to show your best side, but the way to do that is to flatter the recipient by asking them about their opinions and take on the world. After all, most people secretly love talking about themselves! For the best results, you can even combine all three tips find common ground, personalize it, and make it a question.
Have you got any recommendations? The conversation ball is now in their court, and you want to wait for them to hit it back before you try and send another message. Once they do of course, game on!