They throw their hands up in the air, randomly choose a place like a barand hope for the best. This can be used for a lot of different areas of your life, not just dating. For example, if you are having trouble finding your ideal customer, you can use this model as well. Miller the definitive scientific guide to dating for men, organized into easy-to-understand language on the principles to attracting women based on decades of scientific research and Single, Shy, and Looking for Love: The chances of that are horrifically low.
As a man, you have strengths and weaknesses. Some girls are into your strengths while others are not.
Therefore, you have a specific type of bait. So find out which types of fish you want, which of these fish like your bait, and go to where they hang out in abundance. So why are you going to the latter? Of these fit women, some may only be into superficial traits, while others care more about intelligence.
This is where most guys screw up. You have to go to women who care about what you have to offer. Yet most guys keep screwing this up and going to the latter. To use a business analogy, this is just marketing Find out where specifically where your ideal prospects hang out and go there.
First, be much more specific with what type of women you like. Are they calm or assertive? What do they enjoy doing? What do they look like? All these questions will help you get more specific with the key to hang out rather than keep it a vague generality. You still need to experience dating different women to figure out what you like. Just do what you can for now. Use this knowledge to tone down your list to something more reasonable.
How about a local fitness bootcamp instead? Next, identify what your current strengths are right now. Are you athletic and muscular? Which of these places highlights your strengths the most? For example, you may like athletic women, so you put Beach Volleyball rec teams on your list. You get the idea? These are the worst places to meet women for most guys. Only a small fraction of the women at these venues actually go home with anyone that night. Now, your culture and the filmed industry have tricked Women biologically most fear being sexually assaulted.
Men biologically most fear sexual humiliation. Both are most at play here.