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How to sweet talk a girl into hookup you


Big community funding update! November 5, Awkward guy in need of help! I currently find myself in the following situation Some of my friends male and females are trying to convince me that a girl I know is into me, in a 'let's makeout! I really want to try and make a move but I just do not know how.

And if we both enjoy our selves then maybe some more casual encounters in the future. Create the perfect atmosphere? We have both hung out with alone at each others apartments so inviting her to grab some food and then heading back to my place to watch a movie is not at all unprecedented in our friendship.

Is she being flirty or just friendly? Make that first move? Say that we are both sitting there in the dark watching a movie, now what?

I honestly have no idea what the proper protocol is here. This girl probably won't be expecting me to do anything and she may not even WANT me to do anything. How do we go from two friends on a couch in a dark room enjoying a movie to two friends making out?

If we start to make out, I can take it from there If only there was a step-by-step guide to hooking up! Me, my friends, and this girl are all in our early twenties. I've had previous relationships and just got out of a serious one several months ago so I am NOT inexperienced with women, I just lack the confidence and the knowledge to make that first move.

Watch a movie in the dark. Snuggle up close to her; if she physically moves away from you, it's a no. Rest your hand on her leg; if she physically moves it away, it's a no. Lean in to kiss her; if How to sweet talk a girl into hookup you physically turns away from you, it's a no.

Kiss her; if she says no, it's a no. Assuming there are no "nos" -- congratulations, you are now making out! I think with what you're wanting a casual fling and snice you're already friends you should just be straight up with her.

If you wanted to have a relationship I think you could go different routes like asking her out on a "real date" the next time you were setting something up to see each other. It will feel akward asking but I know the women I've been around have appreciated it. As an ovary bearing member How to sweet talk a girl into hookup you the species, I am kind of fond of some direct communication before a person I consider a friend starts getting physical beyond the boundaries of normal friendship.

Otherwise the confusion can cause unwanted drama and end up ruining your chances.

Also, make darn sure you smell good. Couch, movie, wine, music. No no no no. No woman has ever heard the phrase "would you be interested in having a casual sexual relationship with me" delivered cold, BEFORE any fooling around has taken place, and then given the sexual green light.

At least not on my planet. When you next see her, definitely be direct about liking her by talking to her at some length, asking her about her interests and background, remembering small and big details you hear that she grew up in Michigan! Does that mean she lived near a lake?

How did she move to X city from Michigan? Where did she go to school?

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