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Will my wife come back after her affair

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There are always exceptions to the rule. A husband and wife sit in our office beside each other on the sofa. How much does this betrayed husband have to endure? She cannot be forced to love.

Love must always be a choice. In another situation, I am working with a betrayed husband. It has taken him months to reach out for help and support. Normally high-functioning, moral, good people finding themselves feeling, doing, and considering things they once never thought they would or could. She may have felt hurt for a long time.

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A husband may have the ability to have feelings for more than one woman, whereas a woman tends to give her devotion to only one man, so when she has come to the point of engaging in an affair, she has generally withdrawn her affection from her husband and given it to the other man. If a man has been unhappy in Will my wife come back after her affair relationship, he is less likely to be direct in asking for help.

Plus women do not carry stress in the same way men do. When a man comes home he generally has the ability to relax. This is how he de-stresses from the day. A woman on the other hand comes home to a second job and her stress now multiplies four times. Her Cortisol level the stress hormone shoots through the roof. The wife cannot relax until the work is done. When a spouse cheats our society tends to assume there were problems in the marriage, which led to the affair.

While marriages with problems are certainly more susceptible to affairs, problems in marriages are not the only reasons for affairs.

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When a wife cheats it is more likely that the husband has failed her in the marriage in some way, than when the husband cheats. When the husband cheats it is more likely nothing to do with his wife, or satisfaction in his marriage. When a man is the betrayed spouse he is more likely to be concerned with counting the number of times the wife had sex in the affair. When the wife cheats she is more likely to have had a strong emotional connection to the other man.

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