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How to find a dominant woman


I am not a relationship coach, therapist, or expert on interpersonal relationships of any kind.

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All posts by me are simply from my own opinions and experiences and are written from my perspective. Ever wondered how to meet a dominant woman? Things to keep in mind: Keep your common sense. You can be submissive without being a masochist. Not all Dommes are sadists. Women do not exist as a vehicle for your fetishes, so please learn that now.

Listing the same fetish over and over and over and over? Psst… wanna know something awesome though?

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The guy who had this on his profile saw the error of his ways and has since made a very good profile. I love happy endings! That sets you apart about as much as ant is set apart from the other ants in a line of marching ants. This is used, with permission, from Whitefur, a submissive male and member of Fetlife, who is the author of the following advice. How do I cope?

What am I to do? First of all, contrary to what I would like to believe, being single is not a life threatening disease. Yes Virginia, there is a tomorrow. An opportunity to improve ourselves for the game. Life seems complicated, but when you break it down it becomes very simple, as do its many idiosyncrasies. Why should finding a companion be any different?

One side of the mating game hunts, the other side attracts, or at least this is my line of thinking. I am not the hunter, I am the prey, the bounty, the goal, I am the prize.

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So just what is my role as the single submissive? My job is to dance. To attract, to appeal to the senses, to become what the hunter cannot live without! I work on myself to become more attractive to potential hunters. I learn a new skill. I lose a few pounds.

I dust off a book and add depth to my soul. I work on being a better housekeeper. I spend my extra time and energy on becoming more valuable to them. On FetLife… About Me. This is one part of your first impression "How to find a dominant woman" a hunter. Does it say anything about you? Is it thought out, descriptive, does it say anything non kink? Open up, be yourself and lay your unique vibrancy out there — THAT is attractive. The best hunters are interested in more than your trophy rack.

I realize some may not wish to put up pics of themselves… At least make it unique to you… And for goodness sakes, put something! The question mark screams disinterest, disengaged, and disinclined… Not what you want for a first impression, remember attractive!

Another firstand ongoing, impression is how you conduct yourself in the groups. It allows the hunter to see past the physical and begin getting a picture of the inside of you.

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